Talk to Danielle

Parenting. Healing. Unfiltered. Hosted by parenting expert and educator Danielle C Baker, Talk to Danielle tackles the tough conversations around parenting, self-healing, emotional growth, and raising kids in today’s world. Breaking patterns. Healing forward. Helping you become the parent you always wanted to be.

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Episodes

Wednesday Jul 10, 2024

Saying "I'm sorry" is not an apology.
 
In this episode, Danielle explains how the lack of guidance in the early years when it comes to apologizing creates adults with toxic traits. By understanding your apology languages, you are in a much better position to teach your child about the true meaning of an apology. This will then allow your child to set the right boundaries to nurture healthy relationships.
 
This episode is brought to you by The Self-Esteem Doctor Online Academy. Visit www.theselfesteemdoctor.com for great resources to help your child with self-esteem and confidence.

Wednesday Jul 03, 2024

When we have an honest look at why the reasons why children do not want to share, we can see that those reasons are valid. In the beginning, it is very normal for young children to not want to share their belongings.
 
Danielle explains 4 of the main reasons why your child may not want to share and how the adults' reactions create the struggle.
 
This episode is brought to you by the Self-Esteem Doctor Online Academy. Check out www.theselfesteemdoctor.com for great resources to help with your child's self-esteem, confidence, and so much more.

Wednesday Jun 26, 2024

When looking at the true role of a parent, we can clearly see that it is the most unselfish acts in life.
 
However! When we reflect on the reasons why we want children, and how we are taught to care for children, we can clearly see that having children is a selfish act.
 
Danielle explains why wanting and having children is selfish, why we have such a distorted view of our role as parents, and the steps we can take to end the toxic generational patterns so our children don't have to take on our burdens.
 
This episode is brought to you by the Self-Esteem Doctor Academy. Check out www.theselfesteemdoctor.com for amazing resources that will help with your child's self-esteem, confidence, and so much more.

Wednesday Jun 19, 2024

When you know what is truly happening behind the Supermom Mentality, you will quickly realize that being called a supermom is an insult.
 
Being consumed by being the incredibly perfect mom is a call for help, a toxic behaviour that is deep rooted in trauma. In this episode, Danielle explains why the term supermom needs to be called out for the socially accepted abuse that it is and gives advice on how to let go of that destructive behaviour, allowing all the wonderful moms out there to get the support they need.
 
This episode is brought to you by The Self-Esteem Doctor Online Academy. Visit www.theselfesteemdoctor.com for amazing resources to help with your child's self-esteem and confidence.

Thursday Jun 13, 2024

Before you can start talking about Love Languages, you need to know what love is and how that shows up for you! In this episode, Danielle gives the true definition of what love is, breaks it down into 3 easy-to-explain levels of love and then shares how you can teach your child about love.
 
By having these conversations early, you are giving your child the guidance they need to find the right relationships in their life. This may even shed light into how your interpretate love and how you can find the right relationships in your life.
 
This episode is brought to you by the Self-Esteem Doctor Online Academy. Visit www.theselfesteemdoctor.com for great resources to help with your child's confidence, self-esteem, and so much more.

Thursday Jun 06, 2024

What is one thing your child does that drives you crazy? Why do you get such a sudden and irrational reaction to that behaviour?
 
Danielle explains what parental triggers are, how they develop, interesting facts about triggers, and, most importantly, how our children are actually showing us where we can heal our childhood traumas.
 
This episode is brought to you by the Self-Esteem Doctor Online Academy. Visit www.theselfesteemdoctor.com for great resources to help your child with their self-esteem and confidence.

Wednesday May 22, 2024

With social maturity having a direct impact on our overall well-being and being a factor in many mental illnesses, why is it not talked about?
 
Danielle explains a parent's very important role in supporting their child's social maturity and goes over Erikson's 8 stages of social maturity. She also describes what conflicts occur with each stages of life and what issues they create if they are not resolved in a healthy way.
 
Questioning our parents' values and being open to discussions about the values that are being passed down from one generation to the next is how we raise the best world leaders and have a positive impact on our world.
 
This episode is brought to you by the Self-Esteem Doctor Online Academy. Visit www.theselfesteemdoctor.com for great resources to help your child with self-esteem and confidence.

Thursday May 16, 2024

With the word Narcissism being tossed around like candy on social media and everywhere else, it becomes difficult for parents to get the right information they need when questioning if their child may be suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).
 
There is a lot of pain and trauma associated to this condition for both the individual with NPD and the people who suffer the inevitable narcissistic abuse. It is not a word that should be used freely by calling someone a narcissist when you are not getting your way.
 
Danielle will walk you through some of the signs to look for in your child as well as what to do if you are interacting with a narcissistic child. The harsh reality of this personality disorder is not to be taken lightly and must be addressed promptly, with professional help and support. While most people give up on a narcissist in the adult years, it is important to support them the best we can when they are children.
 
This episode is brought to you by The Self-Esteem Doctor Online Academy. Check out www.theselfesteemdoctor.com for amazing resources to help your child with self-esteem and confidence.

Wednesday May 08, 2024

The best approach to parenting is to find the right balance between the different parenting styles in order to truly support your child from infancy to adulthood.
 
Danielle refers to this equilibrium act as the Parenting Palette where, like an artist crafting the most beautiful painting by mixing and creating their own colours, parents find the right combination of parenting styles that their child will respond to the best.
 
She will describe the pros and cons of the 4 most common parenting styles, along with what kind of parent-child relationship each parenting style may create once the children are adults.
 
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This episode is brought to you by the Self-Esteem Doctor Online Academy. Be sure to check out the site for amazing resources to help with your child's self-esteem, confidence, and so much more: www.theselfesteemdoctor.com

Wednesday May 01, 2024

Parental Alienation is an incredibly abusive behaviour and both sides (the alienator and the alienated) play a part in it.
 
In this episode, Danielle explains 3 major impacts parental alienation has on a child and speaks to the alienator and the alienated on what they need to do to end this manipulation tactic.
 
This episode is brought to you by the Self-Esteem Doctor Online Academy. Check out the site for amazing resources that will help with your child's self-esteem, confidence, and so much more. www.theselfesteemdoctor.com

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